Tuesday, March 29, 2011
Belk Charity Day!
This year Pearl Ministries will once again participate in Belk's Charity Day! This is a very simple fundraiser and an EASY way for you (and your friends) to support our work by SHOPPING!
Here's how it works: We are selling $5 Coupons. Pearl Ministries gets to keep that entire $5 to use toward our work of helping children in Uganda. You get to use the coupon you buy to get $5 off your Belk purchase during their Spring 2011 Charity Sale. The Sale is April 16th from 6am to 10am. Belk runs a lot of special deals and promotions during sale, so it is worth getting up early!
Here's how you can help:
Buy a coupon! Email me at jamie@pearlministries.org if you'd like to purchase a coupon. Only one coupon per customer, but you MAY purchase coupons to give out to friends and family.
Sell coupons! Think your friends and family would want to participate? You can sell coupons on Pearl Ministries' behalf.
Volunteer! If you live in the Birmingham area we need volunteers to help represent Pearl Ministries at a table at the Belk at the Summit. April 13 and 14 from 1pm to 4pm. You will assist us as we sell tickets and help spread the word about the work Pearl Ministries is doing in Uganda!
Contact me at jamie@pearlministries.org OR at our Pearl Office 205.202.5616 if you are interesting in buying tickets, selling tickets or volunteering!
$5 can feed a child at Ranch on Jesus 5 full meals!!! Ticket sales can add up fast to fill hungry tummies!!!
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Fundraisers
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Psych!
So I'm standing in the Lovelady Thrift Store sifting through the racks. I've just dropped Scott off at the airport for his noon flight for Uganda. I hear my cell phone ring and I answer it. It's Scott.
"Hi honey, did you get checked in OK?"
"No. I'm not going."
I think the entire Lovelady Center heard me gasp.
"What happened?"
Here's what Scott explained: His passport expires in June. Shouldn't be a problem since it's March, right? WRONG. Apparently passport expiration dates are totally fake. Most countries won't let you past their borders if your passport expires in less than 6 months. So Delta put a block on Scott's ticket until he gets his passport renewed. Yikes!
This has thrown us for a complete loop. We didn't have any kind of Plan B just in case Scott's passport was invalid. We've spent the afternoon trying to sort out what to do. This even involved a call to the Ugandan Embassy. Sadly there is nothing they can do for us unless we get the passport renewed.
I think the plan at this point is to get Scott's passport expedited. He'll set a new departure date for mid April after we wrap up a larger trade show event. In the mean time we'll try to get a couple of suitcases of crafts home via a friend of a friend traveling home from Uganda this month. As I type I'm listening to Scott chat on the phone with Theophilus. (And yes, he's chatting in Ugandan English. He did that when he talked to the embassy too.) They're trying to sort out some logistics for Theophilus to get in contact with our vendors to purchase some of the sling purses we desperately need for our spring events.
Honestly we're still in a bit of shock. I am, of course, happy to have Scott with us. But I have NO idea what I am going to cook for dinner now. Vivian and I were just going to survive on leftovers tonight! Speaking of Vivian...she was all set for her daddy to leave and gave him lots of hugs this morning. So imagine her surprise when she saw Scott waiting in the van as I walked her out of school.
But instead of being happy, she was a little cross. She said "Daddy, you're supposed to be in Africa to give money to Daddy 'Ophilus!" Scott wired money to Ranch on Jesus yesterday so this wasn't entirely true, but her carefully listening ears had picked up enough from our conversations to know that money was desperately needed in Uganda. So she assumed her daddy must be going to Africa to give Theophilus money. The Lord bless her sweet heart because she was more concerned with her Daddy 'Ophilus getting the help he needed than her own desire to have daddy home with us.
Obviously this is what the Lord had in mind even if it wasn't what we planned, but it is still challenging to adjust. Scott's been discouraged, but his mood is actually pretty bright considering the circumstances. I'm mostly discouraged for Theophilus as I know he was looking forward to having his friend with him. Over the phone I hear him say "We would have fought, we would have quarreled, but we would have been together and been really refreshed." I am sad to hear his genuine disappointment, but if I know anything about Theophilus he is resilient and strong. He'll be alright.
But if you happen to think about it, do pray for him. We were able to send some money, but not as much as Ranch needs. This time of the year is so hard. Pray for our hands to be diligent, for the Kamaras to be encouraged and for the Lord to meet the needs of His little ones. Also pray Scott's passport comes through a.s.a.p!
"Hi honey, did you get checked in OK?"
"No. I'm not going."
I think the entire Lovelady Center heard me gasp.
"What happened?"
Here's what Scott explained: His passport expires in June. Shouldn't be a problem since it's March, right? WRONG. Apparently passport expiration dates are totally fake. Most countries won't let you past their borders if your passport expires in less than 6 months. So Delta put a block on Scott's ticket until he gets his passport renewed. Yikes!
This has thrown us for a complete loop. We didn't have any kind of Plan B just in case Scott's passport was invalid. We've spent the afternoon trying to sort out what to do. This even involved a call to the Ugandan Embassy. Sadly there is nothing they can do for us unless we get the passport renewed.
I think the plan at this point is to get Scott's passport expedited. He'll set a new departure date for mid April after we wrap up a larger trade show event. In the mean time we'll try to get a couple of suitcases of crafts home via a friend of a friend traveling home from Uganda this month. As I type I'm listening to Scott chat on the phone with Theophilus. (And yes, he's chatting in Ugandan English. He did that when he talked to the embassy too.) They're trying to sort out some logistics for Theophilus to get in contact with our vendors to purchase some of the sling purses we desperately need for our spring events.
Honestly we're still in a bit of shock. I am, of course, happy to have Scott with us. But I have NO idea what I am going to cook for dinner now. Vivian and I were just going to survive on leftovers tonight! Speaking of Vivian...she was all set for her daddy to leave and gave him lots of hugs this morning. So imagine her surprise when she saw Scott waiting in the van as I walked her out of school.
But instead of being happy, she was a little cross. She said "Daddy, you're supposed to be in Africa to give money to Daddy 'Ophilus!" Scott wired money to Ranch on Jesus yesterday so this wasn't entirely true, but her carefully listening ears had picked up enough from our conversations to know that money was desperately needed in Uganda. So she assumed her daddy must be going to Africa to give Theophilus money. The Lord bless her sweet heart because she was more concerned with her Daddy 'Ophilus getting the help he needed than her own desire to have daddy home with us.
Obviously this is what the Lord had in mind even if it wasn't what we planned, but it is still challenging to adjust. Scott's been discouraged, but his mood is actually pretty bright considering the circumstances. I'm mostly discouraged for Theophilus as I know he was looking forward to having his friend with him. Over the phone I hear him say "We would have fought, we would have quarreled, but we would have been together and been really refreshed." I am sad to hear his genuine disappointment, but if I know anything about Theophilus he is resilient and strong. He'll be alright.
But if you happen to think about it, do pray for him. We were able to send some money, but not as much as Ranch needs. This time of the year is so hard. Pray for our hands to be diligent, for the Kamaras to be encouraged and for the Lord to meet the needs of His little ones. Also pray Scott's passport comes through a.s.a.p!
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Our Family,
Uganda Travels
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
PICTURES!
It's about time! We've been home for well over a month and I've barely posted any photos from our recent trip. Being sick really threw off my groove. Honestly, we didn't take too many photos this time around. But below are some of my favorites.
Vivian and Martha Kamara on day one of our trip. Martha is now 10, but she was Vivian's age the first time I met her. Time FLIES y'all!
Eating lunch on mats under the big tree. Vivian and Matthew are pretty inseparable at this point.
My Joyce girl. Not a girl anymore! She literally shot up like a weed while I was away. But thankfully that mischievous smile hasn't left her.
Mark Kamara, Vivian and Matthew Kamara all playing in Theophilus' car. She loved her "brothers" and even told me she was going to marry Mark.
Me. Proof that I was actually there since I never seem to be in any photos.
Vivian "planting a garden."
We're out on our daughter date with Martha and Vivian. Vivian is dramatically talking to her reflection in the large window and I'm pretty sure Martha is telling her how crazy she is. Martha looks so much like her daddy when she makes this face.
Immaculate and Joan enjoying a big lunch and a special treat of sodas!
Everybody enjoyed lunch that day.
Before we ate the kids were coloring. They nearly tackled me when they saw me walk into the dining hall with crayons and paper. I had to create some rules to keep them from fighting over the art supplies.
Elifaz (new to Ranch this year) and Farhad.
Vivian and baby Jacob. By FAR one of my favorite shots from the whole trip.
The older boys are washing the bus. The picture is special to me, though, because I know Vivian and Matthew are inside honking the horn and flashing the lights. We put a stop to it pretty quick much to their dissatisfaction.
The men folk chatting under the "man tree" as I call it. Theophilus loves sitting under this tree.
Vivian with Yaco, a friend and one of our craft suppliers. He makes the African homesteads and nativities we sell through Kanzi. He is disabled, but always says "diability is not inability." His hard work and creativity have made him very successful.
Lastly, my beautiful daughter, Prossy. She is third from the left in the picture on the top of this blog. She is also the main photo on the Pearl Ministries website. You can see how much she has grown up!
I wish I had even more photos, especially of Sarah and Theophilus. We get so busy just being with everyone, we forget to pause to take out the camera. But hopefully Scott will bring back a few more photos from his upcoming trip!
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Uganda Trip January 2011
Monday, March 21, 2011
Talk the Talk...Literally
Scott leaves for Uganda on Wednesday. You may be wondering why he's going back. Didn't we just get home from Uganda? Yes, we arrived in the States five weeks ago, but we knew even before our plane touched down in Atlanta that Scott would be leaving again the following month.
Why? Well, he didn't finish everything he needed to do while we were there. Kanzi needs some more inventory. Our awesome African sling bags are almost sold out! AND we are filling a huge order for World Crafts who will now be carrying a handful of our Kanzi and Ornaments4Orphans products. We are very excited about this opportunity!
I am also very, very glad that Scott is going to be able to be with Theophilus again. There are a lot of struggles in the ministry right now and Theophilus seems low. When Scott is in Uganda he and Theophilus are practically inseparable. Sometimes they really grate on each other's nerves, but just as any two people who love each other a lot , they'd rather be together annoying one another than apart. I am hoping and praying Scott's time in Uganda will be refreshing for both men.
I don't know if I've ever explained here on the blog, but the national language of Uganda is English. This is because Uganda was a British protectorate until it gained independence in the 1960's. There are dozens of different tribes all living in Uganda and dozens of tribal languages. Most Ugandans speak at least two if not three to five different languages! Still there are many Ugandans who are not able to communicate with one another unless they are speaking in English. Theophilus is from western Uganda and grew up speaking a different langauge than his wife, Sarah. Theophilus can speak her native tongue. She cannot speak his.
When we rescued a little boy named Abraham off the streets of Kampala two years ago he only spoke Acholi, a northern language. No one understood him. Thankfully our oldest boy, Joe, is also Acholi and was able to act as a translator. In his two years spent at Ranch Abraham has learned Lugandan and is learning English. English is the common connector between the various tribes and dialects.
Of course "Ugandan English" isn't really the English we're used to hearing in America. Obviously people there speak with a distinct African accent and because the English was introduced to Uganda by the British, it has some distinctly European traits. The trunk of your car is called "the boot." Flashlights are called "torches." But these little nuances aren't the only difference, for Ugandans have taken what the British gave them and learned to make English all their own. Ugandan English has distinct phrasings and intonations.
When our family is in Uganda things are simple because we are able to speak English. But I'll let you in on a little secret. We speak Ugandan English. The first time I heard a white person speaking in Ugandan English was only hours after first arriving in Kampala seven years ago.
Our teammate, Josh, had flown ahead of our college group due to scheduling and had already been in Uganda for a week once we arrived. When we met him at the hotel I noticed he was speaking strangely to the Ugandans in our midst...he sounded eerily like them. I wondered if he was aware of his shift in accent. Had he just been away from Americans so long that he was unaware of how weird he sounded? Did he realize how silly he sounded and worst of all, did the Ugandans think he was silly? Wasn't this kind of demeaning towards them?
I stopped wondering these questions soon enough when two days into the trip I also picked up this weird accent in my speech. I found people just understood me better, which is a pretty important thing when your primary day to day activity is sharing the gospel with people. I not only picked up the accent, I started saying things like "Let's slope to the church." "Can you extend?" and "more better."
I came to the conclusion that the Ugandans were already accommodating me by speaking my native tongue. The least I could do was try to adapt my English so that it was more like theirs. I decided speaking Ugandan English wasn't demeaning, rather, it was respectful. I've held this view for several years, but today I had a linguist confirm it for me over the radio. As we were out doing errands I listened as Diane Rehm interviewed Robert Lane Greene, author of "You are What You Speak."
Greene had a lot of interesting things to say, but I perked up as I heard him discussing the way tourists often inadvertently adapt their speech patterns to mirror those they encounter on their travels. Spend a week in Ireland you may sound a tad Irish. So spend a month in Uganda and...you get the picture.
Greene stated that those who seek to adapt their speech to fit another's are in actuality acknowledging the humanity of the other person. It is a gesture of goodwill...of respect. So there it was. My proof that by speaking English the way a Ugandan does I wasn't treating them as if they were inferior, but as if they were equal or potentially superior. Now I'll have to stop making fun of Scott for constantly mirroring the accent of whoever he is chatting with (Ugandan, southern, Ebonic, British or Michigan...Once I heard him talking with an Indian customer service representative in a total Bollywood accent. Yes I did!) Apparently Scott is really, really good at acknowledging the humanity of others!
When we are in Uganda Scott and I purely speak Ugandan English. It took us a while to get all of the nuances down. Adopting Ugandan phrasing was fairly simple, but shedding ourselves of American phrasing was more difficult, especially in more emotional or intense circumstances. We still have a running joke with the Kamaras to this day about the time I was throwing up in the back of the van while Scott kept shouting at the driver to "pull over!!!" Apparently this only informed him to change lanes. Thankfully Sarah yelled "stop!!!" before we did too much weaving. To this day if you say "pull over" to Sarah or Theophilus they will burst into laughter.
Talking like a Ugandan has become so second nature that we even speak Ugandan English in private when there are no Ugandans nearby. We'll be sitting in a coffee shop by ourselves jabbering away in our funny accents. I'll give Vivian instructions in our hotel room in a thoroughly African way. We almost have to flip a switch in our brains to force ourselves to revert to "normal" when we are alone. Sometimes when we are in the States I miss speaking Ugandan English. But I can guarantee that when I skpe Scott next week he'll talk to me in his Ugandan accent. It's totally weird, but I totally love it!
Why? Well, he didn't finish everything he needed to do while we were there. Kanzi needs some more inventory. Our awesome African sling bags are almost sold out! AND we are filling a huge order for World Crafts who will now be carrying a handful of our Kanzi and Ornaments4Orphans products. We are very excited about this opportunity!
I am also very, very glad that Scott is going to be able to be with Theophilus again. There are a lot of struggles in the ministry right now and Theophilus seems low. When Scott is in Uganda he and Theophilus are practically inseparable. Sometimes they really grate on each other's nerves, but just as any two people who love each other a lot , they'd rather be together annoying one another than apart. I am hoping and praying Scott's time in Uganda will be refreshing for both men.
I don't know if I've ever explained here on the blog, but the national language of Uganda is English. This is because Uganda was a British protectorate until it gained independence in the 1960's. There are dozens of different tribes all living in Uganda and dozens of tribal languages. Most Ugandans speak at least two if not three to five different languages! Still there are many Ugandans who are not able to communicate with one another unless they are speaking in English. Theophilus is from western Uganda and grew up speaking a different langauge than his wife, Sarah. Theophilus can speak her native tongue. She cannot speak his.
When we rescued a little boy named Abraham off the streets of Kampala two years ago he only spoke Acholi, a northern language. No one understood him. Thankfully our oldest boy, Joe, is also Acholi and was able to act as a translator. In his two years spent at Ranch Abraham has learned Lugandan and is learning English. English is the common connector between the various tribes and dialects.
Of course "Ugandan English" isn't really the English we're used to hearing in America. Obviously people there speak with a distinct African accent and because the English was introduced to Uganda by the British, it has some distinctly European traits. The trunk of your car is called "the boot." Flashlights are called "torches." But these little nuances aren't the only difference, for Ugandans have taken what the British gave them and learned to make English all their own. Ugandan English has distinct phrasings and intonations.
When our family is in Uganda things are simple because we are able to speak English. But I'll let you in on a little secret. We speak Ugandan English. The first time I heard a white person speaking in Ugandan English was only hours after first arriving in Kampala seven years ago.
Our teammate, Josh, had flown ahead of our college group due to scheduling and had already been in Uganda for a week once we arrived. When we met him at the hotel I noticed he was speaking strangely to the Ugandans in our midst...he sounded eerily like them. I wondered if he was aware of his shift in accent. Had he just been away from Americans so long that he was unaware of how weird he sounded? Did he realize how silly he sounded and worst of all, did the Ugandans think he was silly? Wasn't this kind of demeaning towards them?
I stopped wondering these questions soon enough when two days into the trip I also picked up this weird accent in my speech. I found people just understood me better, which is a pretty important thing when your primary day to day activity is sharing the gospel with people. I not only picked up the accent, I started saying things like "Let's slope to the church." "Can you extend?" and "more better."
I came to the conclusion that the Ugandans were already accommodating me by speaking my native tongue. The least I could do was try to adapt my English so that it was more like theirs. I decided speaking Ugandan English wasn't demeaning, rather, it was respectful. I've held this view for several years, but today I had a linguist confirm it for me over the radio. As we were out doing errands I listened as Diane Rehm interviewed Robert Lane Greene, author of "You are What You Speak."
Greene stated that those who seek to adapt their speech to fit another's are in actuality acknowledging the humanity of the other person. It is a gesture of goodwill...of respect. So there it was. My proof that by speaking English the way a Ugandan does I wasn't treating them as if they were inferior, but as if they were equal or potentially superior. Now I'll have to stop making fun of Scott for constantly mirroring the accent of whoever he is chatting with (Ugandan, southern, Ebonic, British or Michigan...Once I heard him talking with an Indian customer service representative in a total Bollywood accent. Yes I did!) Apparently Scott is really, really good at acknowledging the humanity of others!
When we are in Uganda Scott and I purely speak Ugandan English. It took us a while to get all of the nuances down. Adopting Ugandan phrasing was fairly simple, but shedding ourselves of American phrasing was more difficult, especially in more emotional or intense circumstances. We still have a running joke with the Kamaras to this day about the time I was throwing up in the back of the van while Scott kept shouting at the driver to "pull over!!!" Apparently this only informed him to change lanes. Thankfully Sarah yelled "stop!!!" before we did too much weaving. To this day if you say "pull over" to Sarah or Theophilus they will burst into laughter.
Talking like a Ugandan has become so second nature that we even speak Ugandan English in private when there are no Ugandans nearby. We'll be sitting in a coffee shop by ourselves jabbering away in our funny accents. I'll give Vivian instructions in our hotel room in a thoroughly African way. We almost have to flip a switch in our brains to force ourselves to revert to "normal" when we are alone. Sometimes when we are in the States I miss speaking Ugandan English. But I can guarantee that when I skpe Scott next week he'll talk to me in his Ugandan accent. It's totally weird, but I totally love it!
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Uganda Culture
Sunday, March 13, 2011
I Couldn't Resist
I typically don't "advertise" unsponsored children. It's just something I don't feel comfortable doing for a lot of reasons. BUT I am breaking with my own ethics because I couldn't resist showing you all these cute little girls! I met them for the first time this January. It's hard to believe as you see those sweet smiles that both of these little girls (unrelated) have lost both of their parents. And they don't have child sponsors either...not yet at least.
I keep talking about all this work I'm falling behind in, and these two girls are a part of that. If I want to keep everything on track for my current sponsors and find new sponsors for the twenty children (like these girls) we added to the program this winter I need to pick up the pace! I'm currently processing annual updates for 65 children already on sponsorship, then I'll be hard at work looking for sponsors for new children.
I love this part of my job, but it is something I am fully responsible for. I run the U.S. administrative end of the sponsorship program all by my little self. So if something happens to me (like getting sick for three weeks) things in the States (like newsletters, updates, etc.) come grinding to a halt. Child sponsorship is what pays most of the daily bills at Ranch on Jesus, though, so I want to make sure I get my ducks in a row as soon as possible. Thankfully our sponsors are wonderful, patient people!
Vivian is on spring break from mother's day out this week so I'll have to do some creative scheduling to stay on track. The good news is, I am feeling a lot better. Not 100% better...but mostly better. I'll happily take what I can get! Hopefully the next few days will bring the final strength I need. And I DO need to gain strength because I'll be single parenting in a few days.
Yep, Scott is going back to Uganda! He's leaving March 23rd and will be gone for a little over two weeks. I'll share more about his trip plans in a future post. I'll also discuss a little more about how our child sponsorship program works, why we do it, what we hope children gain from it and what we hope sponsors gain from it.
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Child Sponsorship,
Orphan Care
Tuesday, March 8, 2011
The Beat Goes On
So I'd love to tell you all we're healthy, well and back to normal, but alas, we've been home for nearly three weeks and I'm STILL sick. Yes, still. Remember how I said Vivian was "completely fine?" Turns out that wasn't entirely accurate. She was scheduled to have her 3 year old check up in March, but when we noticed the pesky rash on her derrière wasn't healing, we bumped up her appointment so the pediatrician could check her out. Guess what that rash was. STREP! Who knew kids could get strep in their bottoms?!? She never acted sick and thankfully the doctor said this form of strep wasn't very contagious.
But guess who did catch it? Yep, ME. But I got mine in the usual way, in the throat. Fortunately Viv's doctor fixed us both up and we just finished our course of antibiotics today. Sadly, though, just as I was starting to feel better I got struck down by a severe sinus infection. My body was already so weak from the strep that it hit me hard.
Thankfully my wonderful mother in-law was here to take care of us. I am so, SO thankful. I've never in my life been ill for so long, and I'll tell you, it is starting to really get me down. I keep watching deadline after deadline creep up on our calendar as my untouched work mounds up. I don't know how I'm going to do it all, so I'm praying for wisdom to know what to cut back on and what to press forward on.
I've got a bunch of other news bits floating around which I'll get to later in the week when I'm hopefully more lucid. For now, I'll end this somewhat depressing post on a happy note by showing off my new nephew:
Asher was born at home on March 2nd. Yes, this was on purpose. Major cry of pride for my little sister who had a 100% natural childbirth!!! Now I just need to get healthy so I can get over to Atlanta and hold him!
But guess who did catch it? Yep, ME. But I got mine in the usual way, in the throat. Fortunately Viv's doctor fixed us both up and we just finished our course of antibiotics today. Sadly, though, just as I was starting to feel better I got struck down by a severe sinus infection. My body was already so weak from the strep that it hit me hard.
Thankfully my wonderful mother in-law was here to take care of us. I am so, SO thankful. I've never in my life been ill for so long, and I'll tell you, it is starting to really get me down. I keep watching deadline after deadline creep up on our calendar as my untouched work mounds up. I don't know how I'm going to do it all, so I'm praying for wisdom to know what to cut back on and what to press forward on.
I've got a bunch of other news bits floating around which I'll get to later in the week when I'm hopefully more lucid. For now, I'll end this somewhat depressing post on a happy note by showing off my new nephew:
Asher was born at home on March 2nd. Yes, this was on purpose. Major cry of pride for my little sister who had a 100% natural childbirth!!! Now I just need to get healthy so I can get over to Atlanta and hold him!
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